Bruce Lee on Self-Actualization, Defeat, and the Power of Water

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Written by Bruce Lee’s daughter, Shannon Lee, Be Water, My Friend goes into Bruce Lee’s philosophy of martial arts, and his philosophy of life, which is often powerfully expressed via his famous water metaphor.

Water always keeps going, is always looking for an opportunity to move forward, and is never in a hurry. Water is always relaxed and ready, willing to adapt and flow. Given enough time, it wears down the very stone of the Earth and ultimately prevails even against solid rock.

I wouldn’t say this is a spectacular book, but it’s very well worth reading if you’re a fan of Bruce Lee as I am. Even if you’re not, there’s probably an insight or two in here for you. The audio version was read by her, which I did actually enjoy. She’s obviously quite devoted to her father, and today, she’s tasked with preserving his memory.

Below is a collection of my best notes that I’ve taken from Be Water, My Friend, but with very little additional commentary from me. You can find the rest of my notes from this book here, and my list of best/favorite books here.

Now, let’s jump into the water!

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“Bruce Lee doesn’t want you to be Bruce Lee. He wants you to be you.”